Azdawaji Zindagi - Shadi Shuda Zindagi - Marriage Life

Kuchh Baton ka khayal rakhne se Shadi ki raat ko Ahem tareen muhabbat wala raat banaya jaa sakta hai:

https://youtu.be/9mzK03hxGZ0 (IRC TV)

Shadi Ki Pahli Raat:

1. Jab insaan nikaah kare to apni biwi ke saath ulfat aur mohabbat ka mamla rakhe

2. Nikah ke baad pahli raat ya pahli mulaqat pe usko kuchh tohfa yaa kuchh khane ko den (Jaise mithai, Doodh etc.)

3. Jab biwi se Khilwat (Alehadgi (Akele me)) me mulaqat ho to Bismillah kahe fir biwi ke sir ke saamne ke hissa ke balon ko apne seedhe haanth se pakden aur pakadne ke baad Allah ka naam le (Bismillah) fir ye dua padhe

Dua (Sirf pahli baar mile tab (Sirf suhaag raat me))

https://sunnah.com/ibnmajah:2252

4. Fir 2 Rekaat Namaz padhe jamat se (Ladka aage imam ban kar aur ladki peechhe muqtadi ban kar, namaz ke baad yaa namaz me khoob dua kare)

5. Dua hambistari se pahle (Ye jab bhi hambistari ka irada ho tab padhenge (Hamesha wala))

Dua

https://sunnah.com/bukhari:6388

6. Hambistari se pahle kuchh 4 play kare, kuchh khele ek doosre ke saath fir usko apni taraf mail kare fir aage irada hone par sex kare yaa jo bhi karna hai kare

7. Fir mohabbat se baaten karke fir uske qareeb jana hai aur fir aap jo chahe karen lekin mohabbat ke saath (hawas ke pujari ban kar nahi)

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https://youtu.be/3Z3sZneg6AE

1. Apne biwi ko naseehat bhi kar den uss pahli raat me ki ham jab bhi baat karenge hamari aawaz hamesha neeche hogi lagbhag 25 - 50% bas, Isse upar hua to wo jurmana dega. Cheekh pukar Allah ko pasand nahi hai, isliye hame bhi iss ko pasand nahi karna hai.

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https://youtu.be/HOoYmzu_OYU

1. Wuzu karke kamre me daakhil hon. Fir Room me jaate hi Salam kare, fir khairiyat maaloom kare, fir dulhan se thori si baat kare

2. Ladki ke maathe ke thodi si baal ko apne seedhe haath me pakad kar Dua padhe

Dua (Sirf shadi ki pahli raat yaani Suhaag raat ke din padhna hai)

3. Fir 2 rekaat nafil padh len Allah ka shukr ada karne ke liye aur Allah se dua karne ke liye padh len (Namaz jamat bana kar padhna hai jaise Ladka aage Imam ban kar khada hon aur ladki peechhe khade hon)

4. Namaz ke fauran baad Darood shareef padh len fir Allah se dua karen (Allah ka shukr ada karte hi ye dua kjiye: Ai Allah iss shaadi ko kamyab bana, aage bhi hansi khushi rakhe, nek aulad den (Ye bhi dua kar sakte hain: Ai Allah tera shukr aur ehsan hai ke tune hame ye din dikhaya, hame iss khushi aur nemat se nawaza, aur hame apne habeeb SAW ki sunnaton par amal karne ki taufeek ata farmai aur aage bhi unke sunnaton par amal karne ki taufeek ata farma, ai Allah hamare iss khushi ko hamesha aise hi kaayam rakh hame mail milaap aur mohabbat ke saath zindagi guzaarne ki taufeek ata farma, yaa rabbe qadeer hame nek aur farma bardar aulad ata farma. iske baad bhi apne hisaab se jo bhi dua karna ho aap kar sakte hain.)) Dua karne ke baad fir Darood shareef padh len

5. Namaz ke baad kisi bhi cheez me jald bazi na kare.

6. Pahle ladki se kuchh baat karen. Apne baare me bataye aur unke baare me poochhe kuchh der gap shap karen. Jab ladki ki sharam door hone lage fir aap dono saath me sone ka irada kar len to usse pahle ye dua padhe

Dua Hambistari se pahle (Hamesha hambistri se pahle padhna hai)

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https://youtu.be/thX7dITwDmQ

1. Wazu kar ke nafil padho (Jo miya hain wo Imam bane jo Biwi hai usko muqtadi banao) Lamba Quran padho, lamba Quran padho, Jitna Quran padh sakte ho utna Quran padho, Biwi tumhari peechhe khade hokar sune, agar Quran yaad nahi to Quran haanth me rakh ke padho,  Do Rekat Namaz padhne ke baad khoob Allah se Dua karo ke "Ayy Allah maine apni zindagi me jitni kamiyaan jitni nekiyaan jitne achche A'mal chhod diye Allah saare maaf kar de aur main jitne kaamon me mubtila raha jane me ya anjane me jitne gunaah maine kiye Allah saare maaf kar de.

2. Biwi se Ahed karo ki isse pahle meri jaisi zindagi thi main Allah se tauba karta hoo aur aaj se ahed karta hoo meri nai zindagi paakiza hogi, meri sonch pakiza hogi, mera badan pakiza hoga InShaAllah.

3. Apni biwi ko bhi kahe jaa aaj se pahle jo kuchh hua maine aap ko Allah ke liye maaf kiya, aur aap aaj se Ahed karo ki ham koi aisa amal nahi karenge jisse rab naaraz ho.

4. Fir peshani ke baalon ko pakdo dua padho

Dua 1

Dua 2

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https://youtu.be/r2d9-UmVr44

1. Neend Puri Karna zaruri hai

2. Kamre me dakhil hote waqt koi mithi cheez rakh le apne saath jaise doodh ya mithai ya koi fruit

3. Aur Jab ghar me jaae to Salam kare aur Kuchh lekar jaae tohfa ke taur par jaise Anguthi ya koi aisi cheez jo lambe samay tak rahe ya fir agar kuchh na hoto usko uska haqe maher de

4. Fir Baalon ko upar karke bosa len fir dua Padhe

Dua

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1. Dulha aur Dulhan ke liye zaruri hai ki wo apne sharmgaah ke baal saaf kar le

2. Rukhsati ke jab dulhaa kamre me daakhil ho tab darwaze ko achchhi tarah band kar len aur khayaal rakhe ke kamre ke andar aisi jagah to nahi jahaan bahar ki taraf andar ki taraf dekha jaa sake yaa be-pardagi ho

3. Fir dulhan ko salam kare aur unke pass baith jaaye

4. Fir Daayen haath se Dulhan ke baal pakad ke ye Dua padhe

5. Dua padhne ke baad apni biwi ko muh dikhayi ka ek achchha sa tohfa de aur uski taareef bhi khub kare uske khususiyat bataye (Ye ek dulhan ke alag arman hote hain unki pahli raat ko yadgar banane ke liye)

6. Fir kuchh pyar bhari baaten kare (Taleem ke baare me, hobbies ke baare me, Khandan ke bare me) taake Dulhan ko dulha se dil lag jaaye

7. Fir aahista aahista mazeed qareeb aana shuru ho jaae, dulhan ke maathe par bosa (chumna) kare, haatho ko haathon me le

8. Fir aahista aahista Dulhan ke jism ke tamam hisson ko chhoo te jaae taake aurat ke jism me bhi kuchh san sani si paida hona shuru ho jaae

9. Fir jab lage ki dulhan tayyar ho chuki hai hambistar ke liye tab Dulha aur Dulhan be libas ho jaae ya fir khud belibar hokar biwi ko bhi belibas kar de fir kamre ki light band kar den

10. Mard ko chahiye ke aurat ke dono taango ko apne kandhe par rakhe aur mubahshrat (hambistari ke liye pahli raat me jel yaa tel ka istemal kare taake intercourse me zyada pareshani na ho(agar biwi ko dard mahsoos ho to shauhar ko chahiye ke wo ruk jaae fir baaton me uljhae fir koshish karen is tareeke apne biwi ko aur khud ko khush kare), hamesha pastano aur jismon ko chume taake wo tayyar rahe sex ke liye)

10. Kisi bhi kaam me zor zabardasti wala maamla naa kare

11. Jab money kharij karne ka waqt ho to andar hi kharij kare iske baad thodi der usi haalat me thaher ke apne jism ko alag kar le fir apni sharmgar ko saaf kapdon se saaf kar le aur dono ghusl e janabat kar len

12. Agar dobara hambistri ka irada hai to apne khas auzuon ko dhone ke baad wazu ka ehtemam kar le

13. Ek raat me ek se zaayed baar bhi hambistri ki jaa sakti hai agar biwi ko pain ho to ek hi baar kare yaa agar biwi raazi hai to jitni baar chahe utni baar kare

Humbistari ki dua - Muslim spouses should say this du'a before having sex - Dua before sexual intercourse - (بیوی سے صحبت کے وقت کی دعا)